'Memory Tree' suicide support tribute

The event is supported by the Western Health and Social Care Trust and is held to remember loved ones lost to suicide. It also offers support to family and friends of those who have taken their lives as the holiday season can be an especially difficult. A simultaneous event is being held in Newfoundland, Canada with a bereavement group that has developed links with the Northwest Group.

The ceremony includes poetry and prayers, as well as music by Long Tower Choir. Those who attend will be invited to take part in a candlelight ceremony and to leave a message to their loved one on the 'memory tree'.

Barry McGale, Suicide Liaison Officer for the Western Trust, and group facilitator: "We recognise how devastating a death by suicide can be but we believe by coming together with others bereaved by suicide can offer hope and support".

Barry continued: "When someone dies by suicide many people are affected; families, friends and work colleagues, but all too often no one gets the opportunity to talk about how they feel. The journey for those left behind after the loss of a loved one can be excruciatingly painful, devastating and traumatic. Many people who have been bereaved in this way have asked if a support group is available. Evidence shows that support groups are a powerful and constructive way for people to help both themselves and others.

"Grief associated with bereavement by suicide is unique. The coming together of those similarly bereaved, regardless of when the death occurred, can provide the opportunity to be with other people who can really understand.

"They have been through the same experience and can offer the opportunity to gain strength and understanding from the individuals within the group."

The Northwest Bereaved by Suicide Support Group meet the first and third Monday of the month in Foyle Search and Rescue Headquarters at 7.30pm.