Trust’s Valentine volunteering duo celebrate an eternity of love by helping others

In a heartfelt gesture, David surprised Pauline with a stunning eternity ring, symbolising both their lifelong commitment together and the joy they find in giving back to others.

The couple share not only a deep personal bond, but also a dedication to volunteering within the South Eastern Trust, where they have jointly supported adults through the Wellness Recovery Network for the last six years.

The Wellness Recovery Network delivers social and support groups as part of Adult Mental Health Services, providing safe, welcoming spaces for people to connect, share experiences and support their recovery journeys.

Pauline explained how their volunteering journey first began. “We started attending the Wellness Recovery Network because it was recommended through Psychiatry Services after David completed a Recovery College course. He was invited along, but did not want to go on his own, so I went to the group with him.

“After several months, we both realised we were getting so much out of it. I could see such a difference in David and it was helping me too. ”We asked what more we could do and we were put in touch with Volunteer Services and we have not looked back since.”

David, who has published a poetry book dedicated to his wife, said volunteering in Mental Health Services is deeply personal to him.

“Mental Health has a particular meaning for me,” he explained. “Nineteen years ago, I lost my mum to Leukaemia.

"The stress around that time led me into severe clinical depression and I was very grateful for the help I received from the South Eastern Trust.

“Volunteering, especially within Adult Mental Health Services, is my opportunity to give something back.”

Together, David and Pauline now volunteer across Wellness Recovery Network groups in Lisburn and Newtownards, supporting the Co-ordinator and ensuring attendees feel welcomed and supported.

The couple also represent the Network at community events, helping raise awareness of Mental Health support available across the Trust. Volunteering together has taken on even deeper meaning for the pair, particularly after facing health challenges of their own.

David explained, “Life throws curveballs. Pauline went through cancer treatment a few years ago and became seriously ill with Sepsis several times. I was told I could lose her.

“Then after I turned 50, I had a Stroke. A Doctor said to me, ‘You are a survivor, be happy about that. Lots of people are not’.

“When you go through things like that, it makes you think about life and what really matters.

"When you are married, you promise to spend your lives together in sickness and in health, so being able to volunteer together doing something we both love is very special.”

South Eastern Trust, Volunteer Services Facilitator, Sarah Commander praised the couple’s contribution and highlighted the wider impact Volunteers make across the Trust.

Sarah commented: “David and Pauline are wonderful examples of the difference volunteering can make, not only to the people we support but to the Volunteers themselves.

“Volunteering is an incredibly rewarding experience. It builds confidence, creates friendships and plays a vital role in enhancing the care and services we provide.”